TulsaPets Magazine May 2021

34 TulsaPets • May/June 2021 Options from Dillon Family Services By Deniese M. Dillon F amily pets play an important and intimate part in the lives of their owners. They offer unconditional love, affection and loyalty beyond measure. Children learn valuable lessons as they are given responsibilities in caring for the pet. Many of us remember pets we had as children and how they made us feel. For older members of the family, a devoted pet may provide a significant companionship that detours loneliness. Many pets dwell within the home, go on family vacations, enjoy birth- day parties, weddings, bar mitzvahs and other family celebrations. Some families take their pets each year to a Blessing of the Animals ceremony at a church or other special location. When such a pet passes away, it is natural for the family to want to honor this important member of the family as they recall significant memories and all the ways this pet has brought comfort and enjoyment to them over the years. Do Dogs Grieve? Recent studies have shown that dogs also grieve when a close family member or pet passes away. When a dog loses a companion, such as another dog or a human friend, he can react with signs of depression, decreased appetite, longer naps or be less playful. It has proven helpful, if at home, to allow a dog to experience the fact that his beloved companion has died by having him close to the deceased to sniff the body and realize that the friend is no longer there. Such an experience can prevent the dog from searching for the deceased long after the body is removed. Suggestions for helping a grieving dog may include spending more time with the dog, being more affectionate, allowing other pets and friends to play with the dog, etc. When the dog does not respond to these efforts or changes, it may be necessary to consult with a veterinarian for other treatments or medication. Certainly, the family should be able to rely on the dog’s veterinarian for advice when coping with a grieving dog. Also, families should be sensitive to their children’s grief at the loss of a family pet. This loss may be the first experience the child has had in facing the reality of death. Their questions should be answered with sensitivity, affection and honesty. Many of us can remember losing a pet when we were young, and that loss had a profound effect on us and how we thought of death. Peaceful Paws Dillon Family Services has expanded its service menu to help families when they experience the loss of a pet. Peaceful Paws, a garden for pet burials at Woodland Memorial Park in Sand Springs, has become a special place for pet parents to honor the memory of their pet. It is possible to have a pet funeral service if so desired. Together Forever Whole Family Garden Beyond this unique area is now a special garden at Woodland Memorial Park designated for pet parents and their pets to be buried next to each other in the traditional practice of embalming or cremation. Together Forever/Whole-Family Cemeteries When It Is Time To Say Goodbye To Your Pet